[_____]

QUOTE (blitz @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 21:11)

QUOTE (ZDANZ96 @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 13:07) Probably gonna lose it with a whore like all my friends, easier and sh*ttier. Or wait until you're actually ready to do it with someone you love instead of succumbing to the peer pressure your friends make you go through.

Some can't wait because they feel the need to do it.

I think people are making too much of a big deal out of this. Unless you only plan to get laid with the person you are going to marry\spend your life with, you are most likely going to get laid several times with different people, some of them being better than the others. So, why is the first time so important if you are most likely going to have some sh*tty ones as well? You'll remember the sh*tty ones even if they happen in between good ones, I bet.

[johnny_zoo]

Yep and I'm 23.

Haven't even kissed a girl yet! Is that bad at my age? Should I be ashamed of this? Im being serious here? Anyway the reasons for this are long and arduous so wont bore people here, although GTA_stu you might know what Im talking about.

I try not to masturbate anymore at all mainly cos when I do I feel guilty not to mention I'm less motivated to actually go out and get a girl.


Btw this should be a poll!

This post has been edited by johnny_zoo on Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 22:12

[OverTheBelow]

QUOTE (johnny_zoo @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 23:08)

Yep and I'm 23. Haven't even kissed a girl yet! Is that bad at my age? Should I be ashamed of this? Im being serious here?

Absolutely not. It takes some people longer than others to pluck up the courage or even get the opportunity to kiss a girl, but it really isn't that big a deal unless it's with someone you are in love with and will come eventually to most people.

When you finally meet that special one, it will mean much more to you than just kissing a girl. Don't feel ashamed about not being there yet; it gives you something to look forward to.

[TheGreatGig23]

QUOTE (OverTheBelow @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 23:18)

Don't feel ashamed about not being there yet; it gives you something to look forward to.

Beautifully said, man. I couldn't agree more.

[Moonshield]

QUOTE (Sanjeem @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 14:47)

I wish there was an Island, where everybody went just to have sex. Literally, just like that. It would be a place for very horny people, not romantic or somebody trying to find love, just f*ck. Imagine it, one man is selected with one woman and if they like each other they just f*ck until their hearts content. If they don't like each other, they just select somebody else. That way everybody is bound to f*ck with somebody. It would just be an Island of sex and enjoyment. That way people who haven't had sex and don't care who they lose it with without making an effort could just do so! I know, it's very controversial to some people

You'd probably be into hanging out at Fire Island, just off of Long Island.

[Tyler]

The amount of flab and crabs on that island would be absolutely horrendous. I bet no one would shave, either. sh*t would be like a 2nd century Gaul orgy.

[Ferocious Banger]

QUOTE (johnny_zoo @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 03:38)

Yep and I'm 23. Haven't even kissed a girl yet! Is that bad at my age? Should I be ashamed of this? Im being serious here? Anyway the reasons for this are long and arduous so wont bore people here, although GTA_stu you might know what Im talking about. I try not to masturbate anymore at all mainly cos when I do I feel guilty not to mention I'm less motivated to actually go out and get a girl. Btw this should be a poll!

No mate.You needn't be ashamed of it.
As for the polling thing you mentioned, there is no polling options here in the General chat section.

Btw, you're added.

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Current standings-
35-29 in favor of the'non virgins'

2 more added to the ' unsure homo sapiens' group (sanjeem and grope 4 the date) for they haven't said whether or not they are virgins.

This post has been edited by Ferocious Banger on Monday, Aug 20 2012, 05:18

[mincemate003]

Yes, I'm still a virgin. Never kissed anyone either, which isn't something I've seen in a lot of my peers, but I'm in no rush for either thing really. As for whether I want my first time to be with a guy or girl... still deciding on that. I would love to accept Pat Robertson's challenge though. Any dude want to help me out?

QUOTE (TheGreatGig23 @ Friday, Aug 17 2012, 08:47)

Whilst I completely agree that it is as simple and as straight forward as that, I have to wonder about where the definition lies with gay couples? I mean, fair enough, a dude can f*ck another dude so that's pretty straight forward. But what about lesbians? They obviously have different ways of doing things so is it down to insertion? Is it "scissoring"? Still, for straight people, it really is simple.

Most people probably do think of the basic lad-on-lass intercourse, although I've always thought that you have "lost" your virginity if you are the one getting plugged or if you are the one doing the plugging. Pretty much the same thing, but makes anal count as well.

If you are lesbians... videotape it and post it here for us to judge.

This post has been edited by mincemate003 on Monday, Aug 20 2012, 05:26

[Ferocious Banger]

^Congrats mate, you're the 30 virgin of the forums!

I really like the last thing you wrote but this ain't the place for us to judge though

[Jay]

QUOTE (johnny_zoo @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 07:38)

I try not to masturbate anymore at all mainly cos when I do I feel guilty

Well at least you have the love of Christ in your heart.

Be guilty. Be heavenly.

[Lightning Strike]

No, I'm not a virgin but I'm also quite nervous in the bedroom. For example I won't perform Oral sex or receive it as I'm just really frighted I might hurt her by choking her which isn't what I want someone I care about to experience.

[Canoxa]

QUOTE (Lightning Strike @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 12:53)

No, I'm not a virgin but I'm also quite nervous in the bedroom. For example I won't perform Oral sex or receive it as I'm just really frighted I might hurt her by choking her which isn't what I want someone I care about to experience.

That would be her problem. Do you think she would keel over blue the first time it hit the back of her throat or what?

[finn4life]

QUOTE (Canoxa @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 23:01)

QUOTE (Lightning Strike @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 12:53) No, I'm not a virgin but I'm also quite nervous in the bedroom. For example I won't perform Oral sex or receive it as I'm just really frighted I might hurt her by choking her which isn't what I want someone I care about to experience. That would be her problem. Do you think she would keel over blue the first time it hit the back of her throat or what?

Lol this made me laugh.
Chick might gag, no biggie, if you let her do the work it's fine, she isn't going to die, or be hurt, you've experienced a gag reflex before?

[Lightning Strike]

QUOTE (finn4life @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 12:04)

QUOTE (Canoxa @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 23:01) QUOTE (Lightning Strike @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 12:53) No, I'm not a virgin but I'm also quite nervous in the bedroom. For example I won't perform Oral sex or receive it as I'm just really frighted I might hurt her by choking her which isn't what I want someone I care about to experience. That would be her problem. Do you think she would keel over blue the first time it hit the back of her throat or what? Lol this made me laugh. Chick might gag, no biggie, if you let her do the work it's fine, she isn't going to die, or be hurt, you've experienced a gag reflex before?

Yeah, It's not pleasant having something shoved down your throat and if I asked her I get the idea that she'd want me to "go down on her" and I'm just not comfortable with that yet.

[EscoLehGo]

Drink a little and you'll be fine.

[ZDANZ96]

QUOTE (blitz @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 15:11)

QUOTE (ZDANZ96 @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 13:07) Probably gonna lose it with a whore like all my friends, easier and sh*ttier. Or wait until you're actually ready to do it with someone you love instead of succumbing to the peer pressure your friends make you go through.

Maybe. Time is a killer, and I hate it when you realise that you are losing your time with non-important things.

I remember back in 2009 when I was at the 8th grade, being pressured to kiss a girl for the first time, and I eventually did it just because my classmates wanted me to do it. I didn't even want it to happen, but just because almost every boy did kiss a girl back then, I felt like doing it just to make myself a more confortable person among them.

In the end, it happened with a random girl I didn't even like in the school bus, in my way back to home.

I think you are right blitz. But I am afraid of how long will it take for me to realise who is the right person, the person I love. Its been a while since I don't find anyone interesting in my life. I gonna wait and see what I can do to know/meet her.

[Ferocious Banger]

QUOTE (ZDANZ96 @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 21:43)

QUOTE (blitz @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 15:11) QUOTE (ZDANZ96 @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 13:07) Probably gonna lose it with a whore like all my friends, easier and sh*ttier. Or wait until you're actually ready to do it with someone you love instead of succumbing to the peer pressure your friends make you go through. Maybe. Time is a killer, and I hate it when you realise that you are losing your time with non-important things. I remember back in 2009 when I was at the 8th grade, being pressured to kiss a girl for the first time, and I eventually did it just because my classmates wanted me to do it. I didn't even want it to happen, but just because almost every boy did kiss a girl back then, I felt like doing it just to make myself a more confortable person among them. In the end, it happened with a random girl I didn't even like in the school bus, in my way back to home. I think you are right blitz. But I am afraid of how long will it take for me to realise who is the right person, the person I love. Its been a while since I don't find anyone interesting in my life. I gonna wait and see what I can do to know/meet her.

The condition you are suffering from is ''Peer pressure''

[Sanjeem]

QUOTE (Moonshield @ Monday, Aug 20 2012, 01:13)

QUOTE (Sanjeem @ Sunday, Aug 19 2012, 14:47) I wish there was an Island, where everybody went just to have sex. Literally, just like that. It would be a place for very horny people, not romantic or somebody trying to find love, just f*ck. Imagine it, one man is selected with one woman and if they like each other they just f*ck until their hearts content. If they don't like each other, they just select somebody else. That way everybody is bound to f*ck with somebody. It would just be an Island of sex and enjoyment. That way people who haven't had sex and don't care who they lose it with without making an effort could just do so! I know, it's very controversial to some people You'd probably be into hanging out at Fire Island, just off of Long Island.

That's going on my list of places to go as soon as I hit 18 then. I mean the first time I had sex it was really easy, girl was drunk off her tits and wanted to have fun, fair play! That's the way I like it, nice quick and easy. However for the rest of the summer I have been trying constantly with girls who I met in Italy and none of them were up for a quick f*ck like the one's in England were, I got a blowie that was it. The only way it looked like I was going to get any serious action in Italy was if I built up a relationship with somebody, which I had no intention to do, I only want to be in those kind of relationships when I'm 20 and onward. That is unless love comes flying round the corner, which it very well could...

Mind you I did hear that although girls in England (IMO) are easier to get and are whores in that sense, if you build up a relationship with a girl in Italy, my friends told me that you would not regret it as usually they are dirty, dirty in bed and will do anything to satisfy you. I believe him to, the only part that sucks is the building up trust and all of that nonesense. Sounds like it's worth it though!!!

This post has been edited by Sanjeem on Monday, Aug 20 2012, 17:33

[E.A.B.]

QUOTE (_____ @ Friday, Aug 17 2012, 07:09)

QUOTE (TheGreatGig23 @ Friday, Aug 17 2012, 14:31) QUOTE (Ferocious Banger @ Friday, Aug 17 2012, 12:24) the ones who have confusion over the meaning of virginity These people should be labelled "Useless", or just disregarded entirely as the words of someone who cannot define virginity are probably worthless. The concept of virginity is more vague than some of you people think. QUOTE (Wikipedia) the concept of virginity has traditionally involved sexual abstinence before marriage, and then to engage in sexual acts only with the marriage partner. Sexual abstinence? Hmm. How does that go with masturbation? QUOTE (Wikipedia) Heterosexual individuals may or may not consider loss of virginity to occur only through penile-vaginal penetration, while people of other sexual orientations may include oral sex, anal sex or mutual masturbation in their definitions of losing one's virginity. So there isn't really any consensus on what virginity actually is. It's a bullsh*t concept in my opinion, it doesn't mean anything especially if you are a man.

Am I the only one that chuckled at this guy at first, but believe that the way he presents his argument isn't totally ridiculous and has some basis?

But no, I think 'virginity' is not putting it in a dudes ass or a girls meatgrinder. The point about handjobs and blowjobs is somewhat valid, though. I mean, what about good, wholesome whores that do every-single-thing with multiple men but still consider themselves virgins.

The 'masturbation=losing virginity' theory is on precarious footing, though!

[Law0070]

non-virgin
lost it when i was 16 to my first girlfriend, who wasn't a virgin herself nor was she experienced so it wasn't that awesome either (but i never expected my first time to be awesome anyways)

since then i had about 7 girls, whereof the last one is my current girlfriend, she's awesome and sex with someone you love and care about really IS better, I used to have a f*ckbuddy, we had sex once, it sucked (no pun intended) and afterwards we did it never again, i also had f*ckbuddy relationships with two of my exes but in the end i don't think that's a smart thing to do. but we had fun

to the virgins, don't feel ashamed and please, don't lower yourself to whores, every pot has a lid that fits and you'll bump into your lid (or in this case usually the pot you can close with your lid ) sooner or later...and if you don't fit your lid on a lot of pots just don't be careless.

also, going down on him/her might be hard but...I actually like to go down on my girl, she likes it and she lets me know she likes it, it doesn't taste horrible (if they have decent hygiene) at all. ah well, seems like some horrific myths still go around the globe