[Allen14n]

QUOTE (4 Bagger @ Tuesday, Apr 17 2012, 21:53)

QUOTE (Allen14n @ Tuesday, Apr 17 2012, 22:31) I think sex is overexposed today. People brag about it all the time, and it's definitely annoying. Don't buy into the hype. You need to really stay out of it. Bang, you hit the nail right on the head there. People (especially teenagers) think that getting laid is the most important thing in life. You have better things to worry about than losing your virginity. It looks like you try hard at finding the right girl, T.Rez so keep trying and I'm sure your luck will change.

I'm a sixteen-year-old male. Honestly, I've definitely felt the urge to lose my virginity in my teenage years. However, it wasn't just the virginity aspect. It was also about missing out on what other kids my age were doing. I guess what I wanted the most was to be able to play basketball on a team, but I don't think I'll ever get that opportunity. I found myself stuck at home, while others are enjoying their youth. When you live an uneventful lifestyle, you're obviously going to analyze the world around you. You're going be critical. I can honestly say that my uneventful lifestyle as a teen definitely made me realize some things that I wouldn't have known if my days weren't so boring.

All I can say is that people need to realize


GTA_stu stated:

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If I was Ringo Star or Paul McCartney I'd be hiring some extra security right about now.

That's hilarious! I definitely get the joke.

[Butters 2011]

QUOTE (Allen14n @ Wednesday, Apr 18 2012, 15:31)

QUOTE (4 Bagger @ Tuesday, Apr 17 2012, 21:53) QUOTE (Allen14n @ Tuesday, Apr 17 2012, 22:31) I think sex is overexposed today. People brag about it all the time, and it's definitely annoying. Don't buy into the hype. You need to really stay out of it. Bang, you hit the nail right on the head there. People (especially teenagers) think that getting laid is the most important thing in life. You have better things to worry about than losing your virginity. It looks like you try hard at finding the right girl, T.Rez so keep trying and I'm sure your luck will change. I'm a sixteen-year-old male. Honestly, I've definitely felt the urge to lose my virginity in my teenage years. However, it wasn't just the virginity aspect. It was also about missing out on what other kids my age were doing. I guess what I wanted the most was to be able to play basketball on a team, but I don't think I'll ever get that opportunity. I found myself stuck at home, while others are enjoying their youth. When you live an uneventful lifestyle, you're obviously going to analyze the world around you. You're going be critical. I can honestly say that my uneventful lifestyle as a teen definitely made me realize some things that I wouldn't have known if my days weren't so boring.

I found myself doing this not so long ago when on my own, and it's probably one of the worst things I ever did, but at the same time it was also one of the best things I had ever done. When you're on your own, it's probably the best time for realising the true you, and what you want in life, instead of been peer-pressured.

And trust the wise ones, sex is so over-rated. Through your teen life, there's so much pressure to sleep with as many people as possible, but then when you grow up, you realise that all that sex has amounted to sweet FA. I really wish my virginity had been lost to my first long-time GF, rather than someone I didn't even know.

[ThePinkFloydSound]

I wouldn't ay sex is overrated. The first few times is sh*t. Even with the first girlfriend you have but after both of you have a little experience and you're in your first big relationship or the start of a loving relationship with a girl is the best sex you'll have. I love the honeymoon phase where it's all you wanna do with each other is have wild, wall to wall sex.

Don't rush it. When you find the right girl it will be amazing. Of course teenagers are talking about it all the time. You're going through puberty.

[Butters 2011]

QUOTE (ThePinkFloydSound @ Wednesday, Apr 18 2012, 21:06)

I wouldn't ay sex is overrated. The first few times is sh*t. Even with the first girlfriend you have but after both of you have a little experience and you're in your first big relationship or the start of a loving relationship with a girl is the best sex you'll have. I love the honeymoon phase where it's all you wanna do with each other is have wild, wall to wall sex. Don't rush it. When you find the right girl it will be amazing. Of course teenagers are talking about it all the time. You're going through puberty.

Oh, don't get me wrong; I'm on about this whole one-night stand bullsh*t that everyone seems to go for these days. Call me old-fashioned and boring, but I've always had the belief that real sex is where all the emotions of love and feelings for each other are involved. I've had quite some one-night stands, and personally, they just don't compare to the sex you have with someone you truly love.

[kmlwin.1996]

QUOTE (Butters 2011 @ Thursday, Apr 19 2012, 06:00)

QUOTE (ThePinkFloydSound @ Wednesday, Apr 18 2012, 21:06) I wouldn't ay sex is overrated. The first few times is sh*t. Even with the first girlfriend you have but after both of you have a little experience and you're in your first big relationship or the start of a loving relationship with a girl is the best sex you'll have. I love the honeymoon phase where it's all you wanna do with each other is have wild, wall to wall sex. Don't rush it. When you find the right girl it will be amazing. Of course teenagers are talking about it all the time. You're going through puberty. Oh, don't get me wrong; I'm on about this whole one-night stand bullsh*t that everyone seems to go for these days. Call me old-fashioned and boring, but I've always had the belief that real sex is where all the emotions of love and feelings for each other are involved. I've had quite some one-night stands, and personally, they just don't compare to the sex you have with someone you truly love.

Sex is just the emotional roller coaster IMO.

Yeah, true loves are not compared to sex. You just want he or she to be happy or smiles. When they smile, you happy. You happy, they smile.

[Vercetti27]

I have my driving test tomorrow. bricking it right now!

[HydraulicWaRiOr]

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Saturday, Apr 21 2012, 10:17)

QUOTE (Butters 2011 @ Thursday, Apr 19 2012, 06:00) QUOTE (ThePinkFloydSound @ Wednesday, Apr 18 2012, 21:06) I wouldn't ay sex is overrated. The first few times is sh*t. Even with the first girlfriend you have but after both of you have a little experience and you're in your first big relationship or the start of a loving relationship with a girl is the best sex you'll have. I love the honeymoon phase where it's all you wanna do with each other is have wild, wall to wall sex. Don't rush it. When you find the right girl it will be amazing. Of course teenagers are talking about it all the time. You're going through puberty. Oh, don't get me wrong; I'm on about this whole one-night stand bullsh*t that everyone seems to go for these days. Call me old-fashioned and boring, but I've always had the belief that real sex is where all the emotions of love and feelings for each other are involved. I've had quite some one-night stands, and personally, they just don't compare to the sex you have with someone you truly love. Sex is just the emotional roller coaster IMO. Yeah, true loves are not compared to sex. You just want he or she to be happy or smiles. When they smile, you happy. You happy, they smile.

Love is just as overrated as sex. I would be 20x as happy as I ever was right now if I never ever had a girlfriend before. Now I'm stuck in an evil loophole of blowing girls off because I'm afraid that I will get stuck in an evil loophole of all of this emotional sh*t. I honestly don't know what will make me feel better, not engaging in relationships at all anymore, or giving in, because I don't want to do either. But it's starting to get to me. But for sex, it's all the same sh*t too. You screw for a minute or two and that's it. The only difference between sex and "real" sex is that you got to screw what you were going after for a while. Sex is just straight to the point. But I could care less about it, because I know it's just a diversion. There's nothing special about it.

[Supreme]

[finn4life]

QUOTE (Allen14n @ Thursday, Apr 19 2012, 02:31)

When you live an uneventful lifestyle, you're obviously going to analyze the world around you. You're going be critical. I can honestly say that my uneventful lifestyle as a teen definitely made me realize some things that I wouldn't have known if my days weren't so boring.

This is so true, if you are by yourself often you analyse everything, you learn a whole lot but after a while it makes you over-think sh*t and you end up feeling sh*t.

Break it up and go partying every so often it helps.

[Robinski]

I'd say that a "boring", still lifestyle like that allows you to think you know a lot about the world, but it doesn't. It only reinforces whatever world view you already had. If you're not interacting with other people, places and events then your only source of differing ideas is yourself and whatever window into the world you have (TV, the internet, whatever) and that'll be biased through your selection.

If you really want to change your outlook and develop, stop thinking and start experiencing.

[zoo3891]

I went out to eat at one of those diners that all of us lower middle-class white trash end up at, the ones that look really depressed and have large families. I decided to maybe make myself, and a stranger feel better because anyone who eats at a busy Friendly's in the late afternoon is probably in a bad mood. (Inspired by someone on this forum) I left some money on the bathroom sink for somebody to pick up. Some 12 year-old kid went in about 10 minutes later, and he looked so happy when he came out.

I wish everyone who ate at a diner could be so happy.

[Allen14n]

QUOTE (zoo3891 @ Tuesday, Apr 24 2012, 00:34)

I went out to eat at one of those diners that all of us lower middle-class white trash end up at, the ones that look really depressed and have large families. I decided to maybe make myself, and a stranger feel better because anyone who eats at a busy Friendly's in the late afternoon is probably in a bad mood. (Inspired by someone on this forum) I left some money on the bathroom sink for somebody to pick up. Some 12 year-old kid went in about 10 minutes later, and he looked so happy when he came out. I wish everyone who ate at a diner could be so happy.

I'd like to try something like that sometime.

By any chance, have you ever read The Catcher in the Rye?

[Boss Greaser]

QUOTE (Allen14n @ Tuesday, Apr 24 2012, 07:43)

QUOTE (zoo3891 @ Tuesday, Apr 24 2012, 00:34) I went out to eat at one of those diners that all of us lower middle-class white trash end up at, the ones that look really depressed and have large families. I decided to maybe make myself, and a stranger feel better because anyone who eats at a busy Friendly's in the late afternoon is probably in a bad mood. (Inspired by someone on this forum) I left some money on the bathroom sink for somebody to pick up. Some 12 year-old kid went in about 10 minutes later, and he looked so happy when he came out. I wish everyone who ate at a diner could be so happy. I'd like to try something like that sometime. By any chance, have you ever read The Catcher in the Rye?

Yes let's all read catcher in the rye so we could get brainwashed and shoot "Phony's".

[Typhus]

I'm feeling the blood lust again, the desire to hurt some poor creature some early, dark morning. I get these thoughts from time to time and have to try and drown out the chattering voices, it gets bad at work, I began thinking about buying some clothes to use for it, I began seriously considering it. I try to get it out of my head and I'm trying to be a good person, but I keep getting these f*cking sick impulses.

[glenn tha killer]

QUOTE (Vercetti27 @ Thursday, Apr 5 2012, 13:17)

QUOTE (glenn tha killer @ Wednesday, Apr 4 2012, 05:27) Feel angry, sad and empty. I also feel guilty. thats what trying it on with your sister will do

WTF! Thats sick man.

Im happy now very happy.

[Allen14n]

QUOTE (Robinski @ Monday, Apr 23 2012, 09:02)

I'd say that a "boring", still lifestyle like that allows you to think you know a lot about the world, but it doesn't. It only reinforces whatever world view you already had. If you're not interacting with other people, places and events then your only source of differing ideas is yourself and whatever window into the world you have (TV, the internet, whatever) and that'll be biased through your selection. If you really want to change your outlook and develop, stop thinking and start experiencing.

I can see your point. However, being isolated can give people kind of a "third-person point of view." In a way, that would be less biased if you know what you're doing.

Let's take a look at this scenario I made up:
Let's say you're in an environment where there is a great deal of pressure to be part of a gang. Once you become part of the gang, you follow whatever your fellow gang members' actions are. You commit the crimes they commit. In other words, you become a follower.

I encourage experience, but it really depends on what type of experience. In many cases, people become brainwashed, weak-minded, narrow-minded followers as a result of wanting to join in for the experience. When you're nothing but a follower, you're held within captivity. You have to free yourself from the desire to fit in with society in order to truly seek liberation.

[Ptikobj]

I lost a good friend today, just through me being an insensitive c*nt. I really don't know how I feel about it either, part of me is feels empty and sad, the other part of me feels like nothing of value was lost.

I am a little messed up, I always feel like theres a problem or people are against me.

Not really after advice, just wanted get it off my chest

[Allen14n]

My mom doesn't f*cking get it. I'm not going to end up unsuccessful. If I didn't care, I would have dropped out a year ago. School just stresses the hell out of me.

[zoo3891]

[DELETED] - I changed my mind, it's not a good idea to keep this here.

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[AlexGTAGamer]

Said goodbye on Sunday to yet another family friend who is actually the now ex-vicar of the local church. Due to the fact that her mother is slowly dying from bowel cancer in London, she is moving to a new church parish in the City to be closer to her mum. But, whilst many people may not get to see here now for a very long time, because she was such a close family friend she has invited to take our family to London when she settles down in her new home in the City in September. The place she is going to is in Bow, East London (slap bang next to the Olympics Park), so I'm looking forward to that.

But currently now I'm feeling like utter crap. Why? Well surprise surprise I have another cold. At this current moment I can hardly talk because my throat is so sore, which is not good as I have to go to a school meeting tomorrow. And I also have to see another family friend who has offered me and my brother a job in brass cleaning for a fair price that has yet to be disclosed.

I blame it on the current changes in weather for why I've got my cold back; one day it's cold and raining, the next day it's sunny and humid, so that doesn't help. I'm not the only one though, my brother, his friend, and my nephews all have colds too. Damn English weather pattern changes! I just feel sorry for my amateur photography course leader/teacher, she gets severe nose bleeds whenever there is a sudden change in weather/temperature.

[GTA_stu]

QUOTE (AlexGTAGamer @ Monday, Apr 30 2012, 17:19)

I'm not the only one though, my brother, his friend, and my nephews all have colds too.

Stop kissing them then!

Actually I think I have one too, although so far it's just a very slight chesty cough. So basically I have full blown man flu. I'm trying hard to put a brave face on, but when you're sick with such a horrific illness it's hard to stay positive you know? I've been in touch with the make a wish foundation, but so far no reply.