[trip]

Any chick that wants to be in a relationship for the money shouldn't be the chick for you...or anyone.

That is if I'm reading all the above ramble correctly. I kind of got thrown off by the cousin connection .

[shiva s]

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Sunday, Aug 5 2012, 16:36)

But she has boyfriend. I can't lose her or let her pay the virginity. sh*t's getting serious.

I understand your pain. I had the same pain years ago. You just have to move on or delete her completely from your memories. You should've told her earlier that you're interested in her. Anyway, I know it's hard to move on but she's not the only cute, awesome girl in the planet.

[El Zilcho]

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Sunday, Aug 5 2012, 16:36)

I can't lose her or let her pay the virginity. sh*t's getting serious.

I'm sorry, but this is hilarious. It sounds like some insane court order.

[ZDANZ96]

QUOTE (El Zilcho @ Sunday, Aug 5 2012, 13:53)

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Sunday, Aug 5 2012, 16:36) I can't lose her or let her pay the virginity. sh*t's getting serious. I'm sorry, but this is hilarious. It sounds like some insane court order.

Reminds me of some old soap operas, where the father doesn't let her daughter lose her virginity until she is married with someone who got called by him. Something that used to happen 90-80 years ago, at least here in Brazil.

Perhaps she doesn't deserve you, f*ck her. Abandon that chick and let her break her own face by doing the wrong decision. People like that shouldn't even take into account, people who need to be ignored once to realise how idiot they are. Women who wants to be in a relationship just for the money = always a bitch.
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As for myself and my feelings, I've not feeling anything for anyone its been moths and months. I don't know I just don't care for the girls I meet during my day, since, somehow, they don't fill my type of person. Is it common for a guy at my age? Maybe I am just waiting for someone special to appear in my life, all of sudden. But I am also afraid of not meeting the right person.

Ah! f*ck me. I think I need to deal with more important problems at first, and then I resolve subjective things like love and its counterparts because I just don't care about it at the moment.
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As for blitz's case. Jealous or envious? Because it depends if the guy you are talking about is the same guy you were talking about months ago here, in the same topic. Since you were friends and maybe you would like him to just be your friend and no one else. Am I right?

You should know that a person never belongs to you, even during a more serious relationship, so he is free to do anything without giving a sh*t about your opinion. If he is another guy, did you tell him your feelings? Because if you didn't then what are you waiting for? To watch another girl taking your position?

Talk with her if she is really your friend, and ask what are her intentions with him. A good friendship is based in honesty and confidence.

This post has been edited by ZDANZ96 on Monday, Aug 6 2012, 16:34

[Piperka]

Why do does it seem like most of the people in this thread are the creepy losers in school that are scared to talk to girls, or anyone?

[ZDANZ96]

QUOTE (Piperka @ Monday, Aug 6 2012, 19:59)

Why do does it seem like most of the people in this thread are the creepy losers in school that are scared to talk to girls, or anyone?

Uh, because 90% of the people from the internet are like that?

I've never had problems talking to a girl, mainly because I know how to separate a simple friend from someone I like in a different way, it works like that. Like talking about different subjects, in ddifferent places and around different people.

Many around here are pre-teens with 12-13 years old who are just beggining to know their real feelings. So they might have problems dealing with other girls from the same age since their perspective about them is changing.

[kmlwin.1996]

You are right about love ZDANZ.

Well, actually, I can talk to her. I have no problems talking to the girls too. But I have nasty problem. While I am walking with the beautiful girl, I look at her and say "You're fat." "You too ugly like me." I always tease them. But in fact actually, when I have to say "I love you." Not a f*cking word come to spit out from my mouth. I just watch her with the eyes filled with love and passion. She'll know it too. I don't know what's she's thinking about. About me or her lover?

[_____]

QUOTE (Piperka @ Tuesday, Aug 7 2012, 01:59)

Why do does it seem like most of the people in this thread are the creepy losers in school that are scared to talk to girls, or anyone?

It's very easy to say that from your standpoint, you probably are more sociable than others. Those "creepy losers" are "scared" because they were probably rejected by many people or the environment they grew up in made them that way.

[El Zilcho]

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Tuesday, Aug 7 2012, 17:29)

I look at her and say "You're fat." "You too ugly like me."

Teasing girls about their weight / looks? Risky business.

[shiva s]

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Tuesday, Aug 7 2012, 16:29)

You are right about love ZDANZ. Well, actually, I can talk to her. I have no problems talking to the girls too. But I have nasty problem. While I am walking with the beautiful girl, I look at her and say "You're fat." "You too ugly like me." I always tease them. But in fact actually, when I have to say "I love you." Not a f*cking word come to spit out from my mouth. I just watch her with the eyes filled with love and passion. She'll know it too. I don't know what's she's thinking about. About me or her lover?

Yeah, as Zilcho said, you should never try that on a girl whom you're trying to impress. She may pretend like laughing at that moment but she really gets offended. I know, it's really hard to propose to a girl while talking. Here's a way to make her fall for you. Try to be funny (Don't ever crack jokes upon her). Talk to her by seeing her eyes. Don't let her down before others. Don't ever crack jokes on her. It's really dangerous.

[kmlwin.1996]

Well, so I have to say sorry to her?

[El Zilcho]

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Wednesday, Aug 8 2012, 15:57)

Well, so I have to say sorry to her?

If she still remembers, maybe. It's probably just advisable to avoid saying it in future. Keep being playful though, just not offensive. Women are touchier in some of those matters.

[something_else]

QUOTE (_____ @ Wednesday, Aug 8 2012, 12:23)

QUOTE (Piperka @ Tuesday, Aug 7 2012, 01:59) Why do does it seem like most of the people in this thread are the creepy losers in school that are scared to talk to girls, or anyone? It's very easy to say that from your standpoint, you probably are more sociable than others. Those "creepy losers" are "scared" because they were probably rejected by many people or the environment they grew up in made them that way.

It's just part of growing up for most people. Pretty much everybody posting about girls and whatnot in here are essentially kids (no offence meant, folks). It's all a big mess of hormones and emotion when you're young and you don't really get how trivial it actually is until you're a bit older. If people in their mid 20's and up were posting that stuff I'd be quite concerned for them.

[shiva s]

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Wednesday, Aug 8 2012, 14:57)

Well, so I have to say sorry to her?

Depends on her mood. If she's not angry on you, I'd suggest you not to apologise. Try to be normal but no cracking jokes in her again.
If she is angry on you then apologise gently. Don't swear if she says no. If she isn't ready to forgive you, stay away from her for a while. Try to make her jealous by talking to other girls around her.

This post has been edited by shiva s on Wednesday, Aug 8 2012, 15:46

[_____]

QUOTE (something_else @ Wednesday, Aug 8 2012, 18:21)

It's just part of growing up for most people. Pretty much everybody posting about girls and whatnot in here are essentially kids (no offence meant, folks). It's all a big mess of hormones and emotion when you're young and you don't really get how trivial it actually is until you're a bit older. If people in their mid 20's and up were posting that stuff I'd be quite concerned for them.

I know some people who made solid relationships during this part of growing up. I don't know if it was a compromise on their part but there's still a possibility that it might end up being something serious.

Basically you don't have much choice, you have to go with the flow in order to maintain your well being. Rational thinking doesn't always help in these situations.

[OverTheBelow]

QUOTE (kmlwin.1996 @ Wednesday, Aug 8 2012, 15:57)

Well, so I have to say sorry to her?

If she brings it up, then apologise and say your intention wasn't to offend her. Otherwise, don't say anything more about it.

[something_else]

QUOTE (_____ @ Wednesday, Aug 8 2012, 16:49)

I know some people who made solid relationships during this part of growing up. I don't know if it was a compromise on their part but there's still a possibility that it might end up being something serious.

Yeah, it's possible, and pretty much every kid in their first (few) relationship(s) thinks it'll last forever, they'll get married and have kids and so on, but that just goes with the territory. It's not just relationships though, a lot seems like such a big deal when you're in and around puberty and it's only when you look back on it that you can see that most of it really wasn't.

It's all just part of growing up is all I'm saying so it's not like the people posting here are actually creepy loners, they're just teenagers, which involves encountering a lot of things and problems for the first time. And maybe being a little bit creepy and lonely.

[Exxon]

Sorry for breaking the conversation, but I want to share my feelings once again

Previous time I posted here, I said I haven't been as happy as I now am.
I'm even happier now I have a holidayjob, which sucks quite frankly, but I met 4 girls there.
All very nice, and we can all get along with each other pretty good.

Now, the most beautiful one and the sweetest one, Christel ... I believe I like her
I'll be very honest with you, she isn't as pretty as the other girl, but I still think she is quite beautiful.

At one point, we talked about how she's getting teased at school and the guys calling her ugly and fat.
I don't understand those guys ... how can you do that to such a sweet girl?
She is NOT ugly and NOT fat ... and I like her. We talked on WhatsApp and I told her how she ís beautiful and such.
I, somewhere, got the feeling she likes me too, but I'm not sure. When she was home and went somewhere, she used 'xxxx *kissing smiley*'.
Though I know girls often do that ... but I got the feeling she likes me. The thing is, she lives too far away from me to reach by bike

Still, my parents might bring me there a few times, I hope it could work out.
I like her, and it actually seems she does like me

This post has been edited by Exxon on Wednesday, Aug 8 2012, 16:54

[_____]

Be careful, some girls are just awfully nice. I think you may be in a vulnerable situation (you are getting over the last girl) and therefore you are prone to "fall in love" again.

[Exxon]

I'm not saying I am in love again, I just really like her.
She is the first girl to be so kind, get it?