[ccrogers15]

Ive got a choice to make on living arrangements. The choice will have to be my final decision.

1. Live at moms house, go back to school, be with family. House is more comforable. But cant get a job so i wont get no money.

2. Live at dads, work at family business and get money, house is older, and wont have time for school.


What would be a smarter move? I want money, but also dont exactly want to leave moms house.

[Robinski]

My advice is figure this out for yourself. I'm not trying to be an asshole, but these sort of things are big decisions that only you can make. Don't play dumb, you know what going to school can do for you and what going to work instead can do for you. You know what the living situations will be like and who you'll be living with in either situation. Don't make a decision based on what others tell you, because then if you feel like you've f*cked up further down the line you'll look back and blame them instead of looking at the real problem.

List the pros and cons for each side and decide which list holds more weight.

Hell, go and flip a coin for it. Not to actually listen to it, but I can tell you that, for that split second while the coin's spinning in mid air, you'll know which result you want to see.

[ZoomZoom]

Live in Mom's house. Family> Money but today we see Money>Family...

[Triple Penetration]

I see you're same age as me (it's hard to believe, but not all people's IQs are identical).

I for myself prioritise school over job and my parents think so too. You should work only when you're in desperate need of money.

But as Robin said, think for yourself. All of us get our own dilemmas and choices that we had to think thoroughly before making the right decision and you can't really rely on others all the time.

[shiva s]

I'm not really good in this but you should stay with your mom and go to school regularly. You're too young to go to work and earn money so I'd advise you to stay in your home. Don't miss your school life, bro. But, as Rob said, you're the only one who can make the right decision. Just do what you think is right. Good luck.

[LazyboyEight]

How much do you get for the job?

If you get alot then live with your dad and use the money you get yourself to make the house more comfortable (may take a while but would be worth it)

I think school is pointless if you have your job opportunity right infront of you.

But that's just my opinion, and it's what I would do, but then again I don't know the details of what has been happening and whether you'd rather with with your mother or father.

Just go with what you want to as everyone else has said, or use Rob's suggestion of flipping the coin and finding out what you REALLY want within the split second.

EDIT: Why don't you take the job and then swap between living at your mum's and dad's every week?
You get a balance of money and family

[ccrogers15]

Thanks guys. Ive made a decision. Lock this topic please.

[caio3771]

Education is the base for everything in my opinion. With it we can be a better person too.
So, number 1.

But I agree totally with Robinski, it's a big situation to ask for someone how to do.

[LazyboyEight]

QUOTE (ccrogers15 @ Friday, Aug 17 2012, 20:14)

Thanks guys. Ive made a decision. Lock this topic please.

What decision did you make?

Or is it too "family" to talk about.

[codyr783]

If you live at your mother's house, what prevents you from working?

[goin-god]

If you need an internet forum for this kind of decisions, you better leave school. It's not like it's helping you.

[trip]

Option 2. Learn the family business and plan to keep it. You won't need a degree from a school for that job/career.

Your mother, family, and familiar house will always be there for you regardless of where you are.

[_____]

I don't suppose you've finished high school yet? Judging by your age it doesn't seem to be the case. I'd say definitely finish high school first.